Valentine’s Day is over, the bouquet of flowers on your desk are wilted and of course your chocolates were consumed several days ago! My friend, do not fret! While participating in the Winter Challenge, you can share a morsel of love with yourself everyday with a compliment.
There are numerous studies that have focused on the effects of complimenting yourself or positive self-talk throughout the years. Many of those studies have centered on the impact your attitude can have on an athletic task. For example, Judy L. Van Raalte , Britton W. Brewer , Brian P. Lewis , Darwyn E. Linder , Gregg Wildman , Johnathon Kozimor in 1995, studied the difference in dart-throwing performance between individuals who positively complimented themselves and those who were advised to negatively respond. In this study, Raalte et. al, reaffirmed the notion that having a positive outlook on your situation can change the outcome and even enhance performance. Those who complimented themselves and had used positive self-talk performed better than the participants who were negative.
Now, I recognize that most of us are not out competing in dart-throwing or necessarily in another sporting event, but the concept is the same--how we envision our situation can potentially shape the results. How did you respond when you were faced with a challenge at work today? When you did something well, did you allow yourself to celebrate?
There are numerous studies that have focused on the effects of complimenting yourself or positive self-talk throughout the years. Many of those studies have centered on the impact your attitude can have on an athletic task. For example, Judy L. Van Raalte , Britton W. Brewer , Brian P. Lewis , Darwyn E. Linder , Gregg Wildman , Johnathon Kozimor in 1995, studied the difference in dart-throwing performance between individuals who positively complimented themselves and those who were advised to negatively respond. In this study, Raalte et. al, reaffirmed the notion that having a positive outlook on your situation can change the outcome and even enhance performance. Those who complimented themselves and had used positive self-talk performed better than the participants who were negative.
Now, I recognize that most of us are not out competing in dart-throwing or necessarily in another sporting event, but the concept is the same--how we envision our situation can potentially shape the results. How did you respond when you were faced with a challenge at work today? When you did something well, did you allow yourself to celebrate?
30% of American adults strongly agree that on most days, they feel a sense of accomplishment from what they do. That's only a third of adults! We need to be better at loving ourselves. Compliment your efforts, progress, accomplishments, and who you are. You deserve the best!
Honestly share morsels of love with yourself this week!
Honestly share morsels of love with yourself this week!
